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Name you prefer: Kim
Gender identification: Genderqueer. Usually I'm neutral, occasionally femme or masculine when I'm in the mood.
Sexual Orientation: pansexual
Closet status: I don't normally discuss personal details with people in real life relating to my gender identification or sexuality--I'm not closeted online, but in real life I'm a bit closeted--I live in Japan and there's a huge social stigma against anyone perceived as "different".
Dom, sub, or switch: Sub.
Relationship status: Newly single.
Level of experience with BDSM: Little. I've recently come off of a 5-year relationship in which my partner didn't really care to explore this aspect of my sexuality with me. Occasionally I could wheedle my way into a lovely spanking, or being bound--little things--but my partner was less than enthusiastic. Now that I'm single again, I want whomever is my next partner to be willing to explore this with me, as it's been very long overdue.
Age: 23

Any additional tidbits you think are important...
Two of the most important things in my life are my religion (Shinto, with a healthy dose of Buddhism) and my martial art (an old Japanese style that includes swordsmanship and jujutsu). (If it wasn't for these I honestly don't know what would be guiding me through my life right now. My parents disagree with nearly every aspect of my lifestyle, and I haven't talked to them in over a year.) Shinto and Buddhism comfort and protect me, and my martial art trains and disciplines my body, spirit, and heart.
Welcome... It's cool to have someone from Japan here!